Thursday, February 13, 2020

A humble request to all sons


A humble  request   to all sons

By
P.R.Ramachander

(I  read an English write up about this by  my friend  Sri Devanathan Srinivasarangan based on a telugu  poem. I liked it and am presenting it  in the form that I want  with grateful thanks to my friend)

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Mom carries  you for nine months,
Dad carries you for twenty five years,
You keep Mom  in the Front  and Dad at the back

Mummy works   day and night without pay,
dad pays   all he earns   to the family,
You keep Mom in the Front  and Dad  at the back

Mummy cooks    all that family wants,
With all   groceries that   Dad buys,
You keep Mom in the Front  and Dad  at the back

Your  Mummy has  an almirah full of Saris and dresses,
Your dad  has few cloths in a   corner  of shelf,
You keep  Mom in the Front  and Dad  at the back

Your mummy  has  several ornaments made of Gold,
Youd Dad  has one dhothi  with gold coloured border,
You keep Mom  in the Front  and Dad  at the

Mom buys cheaper Sari  during festivals  when times are hard,
Dad never   even thinks  of the cloth store  at that time 
You keep Mom  is in the Front  and Dad  at back

When you call from usa  you talk to your Mom,
But when time is over, you say  , next time to Dad,
You keep Mom in the Front  and Dad  at the back

All dads  are  at back  , because  they  are,
The back bones  of the family and due to them
All of us are able  to stand  erect and straight
And So please  honour  Dad   and Mom equally well

Wednesday, February 12, 2020

Old age +Solitude = Torture


Old age +Solitude  = Torture

Translated by
P.R.,Ramchander


(Translation after  Tamil Text)

Some one sent me in whatsapp :-

*முதுமை + தனிமை= *கொடுமை !

பிள்ளையை... பெண்ணை... பெற்று, வளர்த்து, படிக்க வைத்து..., ஆளாக்கி..., மணமுடித்து... வைக்கிறோம்!

வேறு ஊரில்..., வேறு மாநிலத்தில்..., வேறு நாட்டில்... வேலை நிமித்தமாக சென்று விடுகிறார்கள்...

இங்கு... 70 வயதிற்கு மேல்... வாழ்ந்த வீட்டிலேயே தனிமை...

இங்குதான் என் மகள் படிப்பாள்...

இங்குதான் விளையாடுவாள்...

என் மகன் கிரிக்கெட் ஆடி உடைத்த ஜன்னல் இதுதான்...

என்று ஏதோ ஆர்க்கியாலஜி போல அவைகளை நினைத்துப் பார்த்து....

என்ன சமைப்பது?...

என்ன சாப்பிடுவது?...

அரை டம்ளர் அரிசி வடித்தாலே மிச்சம்..

பல காய்கள் உடலுக்கு ஒத்துக் கொள்ளாது...

தனிமை... வெறுமை...

அவர்கள் இருக்கும் இடத்திற்கு போகலாம் என்றால்...

பயணம் ஒரு கொடுமை...

லோயர் பர்த் கிடைக்கவில்லை - என்றால் எல்லோரிடமும் பிச்சை எடுக்க வேண்டும்...

சென்னை சென்ட்ரல் - போய்ச் சேருவதே ஒரு யாத்திரை ஆகிவிட்டது...

ஓலாவும், ஊபரும்...
நமக்கு தேவைப்படும் நேரத்தில்,
பீக் hour சார்ஜ்
போட்டு களைப்படைய
செய்கின்றனர்...

நான்கு அடி உயர பச்சை குதிரை தாண்டிய கால்கள்....

இன்று சென்ட்ரலில், அரை அடி படி ஏற... இறங்க... கைப்பிடி கேட்கிறது...

எல்கலேட்டரில் போக மனசு குதித்தாலும்...

வாட்ஸ்ஆப் வீடியோக்கள் மனதில் வந்து, வந்து பயமுறுத்துகின்றன!

இவை வேண்டாமென ஒதுங்கி...

பிள்ளையை வாட்சப்பில் பிடிப்போம்...

பெண்ணை வீடியோ காலில் அழைப்போம்...
என்றால்...

அந்த நேரம் அவர்கள்...

ஏதோ ஒரு மாலில்...

ஏதோ ஒரு ஓட்டலில்...

ஏதோ ஒரு சினிமா தியேட்டரில்...

பிசியாக இருப்பார்கள்...

"ஏதாவது அர்ஜன்ட்டா? அப்புறம் கூப்பிடறேம்ப்பா..." என்பார்கள்...

"இல்லை" என்று ஃபோனை கட் பண்ணி விடுவோம்...

நாலு நாள் கழித்து...

"எதுக்குப்பா ஃபோன் பண்ணினே?" என்று கேட்பர்...

நான் பாசத்தோடு வளர்த்த என் பிள்ளைகள்...

அவர்கள் டைமிற்கு...

நம் தூக்க நேரம்...

பாசத்தை என்றும் மிஞ்சுகிறது தூக்கம்!

நமக்கு பேரப் பிள்ளைகளின் மேல் இருக்கும் பாசம்...,

அவர்களுக்கு, நம்மிடம் இருக்காது.

மூன்று வயது வரைதான் தாத்தா... பாட்டி... என்று அடிக்கடி ஃபோனில் கூப்பிட்டு பேசுவர்...

பிறகு எப்போது அவர்களை ஃபோனில் அழைத்தாலும்...

அவன் வெளியே விளையாடறான்...

அவன் கம்ப்யூட்டர் கேம்சில் இருக்கான்...

அவன் டியூஷன் போயிருக்கான்...

யோகா போயிருக்கான்...

என்று ஏதோ ஒரு பதில் மட்டுமே கிடைக்கும்...

எப்போதாவது குழந்தை முகம்... ஃபோனில்... வீடியோ காலில்...

முகத்தைக் காட்டி... ஹாய்... என்று ஒன்றைச் சொல் சொல்லி விட்டு...

ஓடி விடும்...

என் தாடி வளர்ந்த வயதான முகம் அதற்கு நெருடலாய் இருக்குமோ?...

நமது பண்பாடு... கலாச்சாரம்... தாத்தா பாட்டி உறவுகள்...

அனைத்தையும் டெக்னாலஜி முழுங்கி விட்டது!...

எத்தனை நேரம்தான் டிவி பார்ப்பது...?

இந்த அரசியல்களும்...

இந்த பொய்களும் B Pயை உயர்த்துகின்றன!...

என் சொந்த வீடே... எனக்கு அனாதை இல்லமாகிப் போனது...

ஏதோ... வாட்சப்... Facebook... இருப்பதால் பைத்தியம் பிடிக்காமல் இருக்கிறது...!

மகனும், மகளும் போடும் Status-தான்... என் அன்றாட சுவாரசியங்கள்...

"எப்படிப்பா இருக்கே?" என்று மற்றவர்கள் கேட்கும்போது...

( விட்டுக் கொடுக்க முடியுமா... என் பிள்ளைகளை...)

"எனக்கென்னப்பா... ஜாம் ஜாம்ன்னு... பசங்களோட..., பேரனுங்களோட... அட்டகாசமா..."
( மனதுக்குள் ஏதோ...)
வாழ்கிறேன்!


பல குழந்தைகளின் தாத்தா, பாட்டிகளுக்கு... இது சமர்ப்பணம்!


And  I wanted  to  write it in English my own way (dedicated  to many thathas  and Pattis  who live like that)


Old Age + Solitude  = Torture

Struggling hard  , taking loans ,
Sacrificing   all our needs  ,
We nurture  our children ,
WE make them great ,
See to it that they get  married.

They go to some other place ,
Some other   state    and ,
Some other  country  ,
For getting  higher  earning,
Better life , all alone  ,
A much longer  honey moon for us

We   are  both  very old and ,
When we see  a broken windowglass,
WE remember   that my son broke  it,
Whe we  see  the extra  bedroom,
WE see our  children studying there.

What  to cook?  How much to cook?
Even if  we cook one small cup of rice,
With half a brinjal   and quarter cabbge,
At the end of the day, all vessels  will be full.

Lonliness  is a torture , travel    at this age,
Worst  torture , and if we decide after great thought,
To travel, It is torture to reach Chennai central,
With uber  and ola  quoting high fares  and several times saying no,
It is torture   to beg   for lower berth  from young ones.
It is torture  for us to get down from the train,
With tins of sweets and savories, which are heavy.

We then decide  not  to go again  and call  son,
In Whatsapp , daughter  in Google Duo,
And they will say  ,” We are  busy in office,
In Mall, in cooking etc   etc and  we switch off,
The cell phone  shedding a drop  of tears on it

Then after  a week  we will get a  phone call ,
From them when we  are in deep sleep,
But affection   will over take sleep   and that night ,
WE both   will not sleep   at all and get tired

When ever we close  our eyes  we   dream our ,
Grand children  who till  they attained three ,
Were  brought up by us and  at our midnight  ,
When our children talk to us  , they will be playing,.
Gone to tution  and  doing home work in computer

If we humbly request  to have a glimpse   at them,
One baby face will appear  in the cell phone  ,
Which will say  to  us “Hi”   and vanish,
WE will then think that our old  customs,
Have taken them far   away from us  for ever.

How much time to see  the boring serials   and,
Really horrible news in TV and nothing  much,
To talk between us  and our own home,
Has become orphanage  to two old people.

The Status  that children put  , Whatsapp,
And Face book keep us sane   and when,
Some one asks  “How are you”
WE say Terrific surrounded by  bevy,
Of Children  and grand   children.

Food should be mediine to avoid medicine being food


Food  should be mediine  to avoid  medicine being food

Translated 
By
P.R.Ramachander



1.Without cumin(Jeera)  food  would not be good
2,For protecting our body, Onion is sufficient
3.Banana  would make you live
4.Urgent taking food is dangerous
5.For stmach ulcer  lime juice
6.For blood preassure  ,Agathi(sesbania)   green leaf
7.Cough would be cured by fenugreek leaves
8.,Fasting penance   will increase life span
9. For avoiding heat  Kambam kali (millet dish)
10.For livers  to be strong   guava fruit
11,For decreasing colastral   GUlabi grapes
12.For mind to clear Bilwa leaves
13.For urinary problems  pineapple
14/For decreasing heat Karunai Kizhangu(taro root)
15,For increasing power of  digestion chundakai (solaum  erianthum )  
16.For curing head ache  Radish juice
17.For purifying blood , take honey with ginger juice
18.The power of Pencilin  is in Garlic
19.For curing Piles dish made by  Banana  flower
20 Medicinr for  vomiting  Mana Thakkali(Solanum nigrum)
21For getting rid of  arthritis take cutting type amaranthus
22.For removing bad smell of mouth cardamom
23.For avoiding obesity  cabbage
24,For getting cured of anemia nellikkai(Gooseberry)
25.For   getting rid of liver ulcer  Agathi keerai

ͥ An old couple learnt from a baby


ͥ An old couple learnt  from a baby

By
P.R.Ramachander



An old  man   decided  to be like a baby ,
To be happy   for no reason at all,
And all his children   started liking him,
For they knew  Thatha  is a nice person

An old  couple   decided  to be  always,
Doing some thing or other  to help  their children,
THatha cut vegetables , Patti looked  after  babies,
Thatha  went to bank, Patti made  the hair of little girls,
Their children now  did not think   they were a burden but blessing

An old   couple   learnt   diplomacy   from the babies,
THatha told DIL , none can cook like  her  ,
Patti  asked her son to bring Gulab jamuns,
For her daughter  in law, because she herself liked it,
Son and DIL said  , no one ever like  Thatha and Patti

Friday, February 7, 2020

The Story of Rama putting an arrow through maramara trees


The Story of Rama putting an arrow through maramara  trees

By
P.R.Ramachander



There was a king called Manibhadra and he had several sons from his wife Kavika. Seven those  sons learnt evil  magic,One day by their magic they made a  big serpent.When going over Rishya mooka  mountains  , they saw Agasthya  coming that way.They made the snake in to a circle ,buried it in earth and stood on it as Sala trees,Understanding the truth , the sage cursed them to stand there  forever  as trees.They realized  their mistake and begged  the sage  for relief from the curse.He told them when Rama puts in an arrow in all of them    , they would get freedom  freom the curse.When Rama came there  , he  recognized them and  by his thumb pressed   a stone on which the  serpent was lying , which made it straight   and Rama put an arrow through them,
     Among all Ramayanas Kamba Ramayana   describes    the story of Rama putting an arrow through the tree well and has dedicated a chapter to it.Read my translation of that chapter

.Maramara  Padalam From Kamba ramayanam
The chapter on Maramara   trees.

Translated by
Ramachander

(When requested  by Sugreeva   to show his prowess  by putting an arrow    through    one of the Mara mara  trees, Rama by his arrow  pierces    all the seven trees. The doubts in the mind of Sugreeva disappears
     In  Valmiki Ramayana  as pre request  of Sugreeva Rama throws    the skeleton of Dhundhubhi   to a distance of ten Yojanas, Sugreeva then wants hi m to pierce    one of  the seven Sala and trees   then.)

3865.Sugreeva    sweetly lead them saying “This  is   the path we have to go,
And showing them the seven Maramara trees   which by their  height,
Would make the sky shorter   and told him , “If your arrow    goes ,
And pierces   one of these trees , the apprehension in my mind would go”.

3866.When Sugreeva who did not have   any fault  in his mind told like this,
Rama   the lord of all devas  , understanding  the  thought  of Sugreeva,
Smiled   and took  with his  very powerful hands  the bow , stringed it,
And went  near those trees   which cannot be   understood  by wisdom.

3867.Those Maramara trees , even if eons change, do not change themselves ,
And even at the time  when the entire world  is destroyed, they    would not fall down,
And were looking like   the seven mountains   which lift the  earth surrounded by seas,
Have come there   together   and were  standing   in a group.

3868.Those  great  seven Maramaras  made the full moon  and the  Sun,
To  start   doing  great penance    to cross its top  ,
And the Lord Brahma   seeing these  trees would say  I have seen mountains,
As  due to their head  , He was not able   to see  its leaves

3869. Due   to going under the shade   of  those   great trees, which have spread,
On the sky   and all the directions  , the horses of  Sun God never felt tired,
And were not sad that they were   running   in the same way throughout the day  ,
And   in spite of thinking   we were  not  able to find a better reason.

3870.Those seven trees  and the stars  which have existed for a long time,
AS well as planets   which were high up in the sky   appeared on its  sides  ,
And looked shining  more  like the flowers  of these  trees   and the  white moon,
Which had great  luster   had the black area  inside it  possibly because of rubbing  with these  trees.

3871.Due   to the branches of those trees   which never die  growing luxuriantly,
They were suitable to be called as Vedas   and since they were  high  up in the sky  ,
And the swan on which   Lord Brahma who created   the universes   ride,
Which were in his land  along with the  matchless  female   swan,
Preferred to live  on one   side   of   those   trees due to their height.

3872. Due to the fact that  even if the   wind blows  , its    scented   flowers,
Its leaves   and its  fruits   and many others produced by those trees,
Did not fall any where    on the earth   but fell in the river  Akasa Ganga  ,
Of the tumultuous  big heavens  and reach the ocean with big tides .

3873.The trees having grown   above the top of the   head of Lord Vishnu,
In his form when he  measured   the entire world in two steps  Could be ,
Called as   the tall  Lord Vishnu   and they   were  more in girth   than,
The huge  Meru mountain  which is standing    in the middle  of the earth.

3874.Like  the mind of full of enmity   between   the son of  Charitable Indra,
And his younger  brother ,  each of  those   trees were  more hard than,
Any other tree  within themselves  and  their deep roots   went inside ,
The   white   hood of    Adhi  Sesha   who was lifting the earth in the  middle of clear    ocean  .

3875.Those  trees   had grown up   and measured all directions  ,
And they were   standing with damage   over the  passage  of time  ,
They were   being praised by devas  ,  and taller  and stouter  than 
The Meru mountain which is   gone round   by  the sun and moon ,
And each   of them was    equal to the  other   and  ,
There   was several Yojana  (8 miles)  distance  between them.

3876. That faultless Rama  after looking at all those Maramara   trees  ,
Got  a desire to  send his pure  long  arrow  twanged   the string of  his bow,
Making  all the beings   in the far off sky  and directions   deaf  ,
And creating a fear that they have never   felt   among the Devas.

3877 When we know that  the sound of that twang from that   string   spread   exactly  ,
in a similar way  , how can we describe   the  problems  faced by  those   who are near?
All the elephants  of the eight directions swooned  , all directions were  confused ,
And that   sound of placing the arrow  on the thing even startled the land of Brahma.

3878.Due   the extreme sound raised   by  the string of   the bow   of That Rama ,
Who destroys   sin  ,  the devas doubting  that   the end of the  world  has come,
Moved away from the places  of  their normal stay and only  the brother  ,
Who loved  him  stood near Rama   and if  we start   telling,
About   the state  of others  like Sugreeva and Hanuman , they would get bad name.

3879. When Hanuman who is truthful and others   thinking that  they want ,
To see the sending of the arrow    went near and joined Rama   and when they were,
All praising his mastery   in archery , Rama  the  great archer   who  made all beings as his slave,
Pulled the strong string of   his bow  properly, and sent    the arrow    from his bow.

3880. That arrow  pierced  all the seven Maramara   trees   and went further  into ,
The seven underworlds  and since there was no “seven”    afterwards returned,
And even then it would pierce any thing which are  having numer “seven”.

3881. The seven seas, the seven upper worlds  ,  the seven mountains  , seven sages,
The seven horses that draw Sun God , the seven maids   thinking that  this arrow,
Would aim   everything that is seven   shivered with great scare.

3882.Though they were  all scared   , since they knew   that  Rama is a soul like friend  ,
Of Dharma  they all got rid of  their fear    and at that time Sugreeva   took
 The divine feet of Rama wearing heroic anklets and resembling  
The just opened  lotus flower  on his head   and started    telling the   following.

3883.”You are the earth, you are the sky  , You are the other   five great elements  ,
You are  the Lord Brahma on lotus flower  , you are Lord Vishnu holding the   wheel,
You are  Lord Shiva resembling the red fire , you had created   this world earlier,
And you have  come in search of me  who is like a dog to provide help to me.

3884. “Oh king of kings  , the good karma that I did  in my last birth  has  helped me.
By bringing you here and now on everything is easy for me   and nothing  is  difficult,
 I would be the slave to   your devotees   who are like mothers “ said  the faultless  Sugreeva.

3885.  All other monkeys who were suffering for  a long   time due to Vali said,
“We were searching for the God of death to Vali   and now we have got him “
And they all drank sweet toddy , forgot themselves and with joyful shoulders,
Danced    and sang   and   ran here    and there    with great joy.

Classification of sons according to lord Rama


Classification  of sons  according to lord Rama

Translated by
P>R.Ramachander



In the Adhyathma Ramayana  (Malayalam) , in the Ayodhya Kanda  when Kaikeyi tells Rama, that  his father is not able to tell him  that “He should go to forest for  Fourteen years and Bhratha  should rule Ayodhya “ Rama immediately agrees   and defines   the three  type of sons  in the following verses:-

1,.Great son

Thatha karya  manojnptham  yennakilum,
Modhena   cheyyunna  nandanan uthamam,

 The son  who  does  the wishes in the mind,
Of his father  without him telling is great,

2.Medium type son

Pithra niyukthamayittu  cheyyunnavan,
Madhyamanayulla  puthran yennarinjalum,

The one who does  it after he tells is medium,

3.Bad Son

Uktham yennagilum  ikkarya mennale ,
Karthavyam allennu vechadangunnavan,
Pithrormalamennu  chollunnu sajjanam,

Though it is proper , a son who says that,
It is not his duty  is  the poop of his parents,

What a remarakable definition  .Most of our sons according to above are  Great and Medium    and unfortunately  we hve a few   who are  of the third category

Wednesday, February 5, 2020

My humble Birthday celebration With Guruvayurappan


My humble  Birthday  celebration With Guruvayurappan

By
Raja Thatha





I reached  Guruvayur  on first February   evening   to celebrate my  star birthday along with my wife. On 2nd morning I had wonderful  Senior citizen Darshan within 20 minutes.We both went to Kadampuzha temple. For every problem we or our relations we have, we have purchase a coconut , register  the name of the person, his star   and his problem, and take it before Bhawathy there .One priest will read the particulars and another  will break one coconut.It is the belief that if the coconut is not spoiled  and breaks perfectly , our problem is gone, This is called Muttirakkal(getting rid of the problem)  in that temple.When we returned   we were surprised to find my sister  who is 78  and her friend  waiting there  to join in the birthday celebrations.Sri P.V.Subramanyan , who is running  an event management service in Guruvayur (SRivathsam Event management service)   helped us  to see Lord Guruvayurappan, in the  early morning .
    Al the four of us went   to Chamravattam , A temple of sastha  on the shores of Bharatha puzha  in the morning .After a great Darshan there, we came back  and joined a simple Lunch hosted by  Brahmins of Guruvayur,
   This lunch starts with serving of the Prasadam of Guruvayurappan, received  from the temple. Thanking our Lord Guruvayurappan for  having a great birthday , we both left to Trichur.There   we visited the Krishna  Temple at Thiruvambadi, The Bhagawathy temple  of Parmekkavu   and The great  Vadakku than temple  of Lord Shiva.
   Next day morning we    started  back to Bangalore with tears of joy forhaving celebrated   a great 80th birthday.