Blaming yourself for all failures is bad., learn from them
(Based on the tamil post by my friend Hamsabai Santhanakrishnan .Thanks to her)
What has been lost is lost , What has happened has happened,
Think of what should be done and not what has happened,
Be happy thinking that , Only this much has been lost , this can always be bought,
What is broken can be replaced and if you miss a bus next one would come,
Oh only some money has been lost , you have sufficient energy to earn it back.
People would talk about others like that only, for they get happiness by it,
Do not bother about all that, you can only be happy by disregarding it
These are all useless and idiotic matters which are not worth worrying,
True not worrying is difficult but you would be crushed if you worry.
You have suffered a loss but you can always get a profit in some other job,
If I lose hear can I not gain somewhere else, Suppose you fall , wont you get up,
If You fall and if you keep on lying down there , where would it lead you,
Get up, dust your cloths , smile and say “I fell , so what? This is not the end.”
If this fellow does not do it , are there no fellows other than him?
Suppose this path is blocked, are there no paths other than this,
Ok you are not able to do it, so what , try again , try again till you succeed,
Do not ever think “Is it possible?” , think “It is always possible “
You did not get what you wanted, Wait you may get things which are better,
Do not think , “Oh that chap could not do it” , you are different and you will do it,
Do not unnecessarily talk or Gossip , You have hundreds of things to do,
Do not keep on talking about the same thing, It is a story that has ended.
Do not keep on thinking, for it would only confuse you, start doing,
Ok This man is dishonest, it would only mean we have to be more careful,
Who has not been disappointed or beaten in the game by others,
Have you seen any one like that not succeeding forever in this world?
There are thousand problems in the world , Is it not OK if you solve your problem,
Does any one lead life without problems, ignore problems, march towards what you want,
Can every one always win? Suppose we get defeated , is it a big mistake,
Does victory need you to defeat others, If you grow , is it not victory?
Sleeping when you should act is bad , but if from now on you are awake and work, it is OK,
Falling down is not bad but continuing always to fall has to be avoided,
Get up with vigour , show the world that you have not fallen down,
And you propose to reach unknown heights , just by your effort.