Reason for outbursts and need for depositing love.
(Some one send me a Malayalam video .The video with the background of tender emotional bond between husband and wife , tries to explore in a wonderful fashion , the reason for mutual angry outbursts and the need to deposit love with every one around, I have tried to summarise what has been told so that the non Malayalis can understand what is happening.
I do not know the maker of this video.My humble pranams to him. If you know the author , do inform me, so that I can acknowledge to him or her )
If you knock on an empty vessel, you would hear a shattering loud sound,
Fill it up with any material , and knock it , you would hear only a muted sound,
Similarly if the mind of husband and wife are filled with tender emotions,
Like love , affection, mercy , kindness and so on , no angry tones would come out from them.
So if you are a person who hears shattering angry retorts from your partner,
It would mean that you have not filled up you partners mind well.
All of us know that we can withdraw only what we have deposited ,
From the bank account , sometimes perhaps with added interest,
Similarly if you had deposited ten kg of love in your partner’s heart,
You can always expect to get back that ten kg with some interest,
Suppose a person feels extremely unhappy that none of his family ,
Are supporting or loves him back and his life is miserable ,
Find out from that person , please find out from him ,
The deposits of tender emotions in each and every one of those ,
And if he takes time to answer, it would mean the deposit is weak,
And then please advice him that happiness comes out of strength of what he gave them.