Grandpa’s home Heaven
of love or Hell of silence ?
By
P.R.Ramachander
My mind goes back
to the time , when my children,
Had gone to
their grand parents
home for a holiday ,
Though their grand
parents were as old as we
are now at that time ,
They would jump
with joy because the children have come .
The thatha who had
stopped going to market to old age ,
Would have
gone to the market the
previous day,
And would have purchased
things
after things after things,
Recollecting Nanu likes this, Rammu likes this , meeru likes this and so on
The old lady who
had lost all her teeth long back, and had stopped,
Eating sweets due
to diabetes and was finding
difficult to stand,
Would have been
busy in her kitchen making sweets and savouries,
One after
another again and again , sitting
on the kitchen platform
The children too
would rush and run in to their
thatha –patti house ,
As if it was a
heaven of love and would hug their grandparents tightly,
And tell them, “Patti , have you made Jamun?” , Hey thatha,
Did you take out
the cricket set from the attic and kept them clean?”
The youngest two
year too knew that
he has reached his heaven,
And would rush to his room , Take a paint brush and the paint the walls
,
Ofcourse with
water kept ready by Thatha and start
writing sweet nothings,
On the walls by
a huge pencil without lead and
drag his patti to see it all.
Times have
changed, in spite of knowing that
my own tiny tots are coming,
I would be sitting with my
lap top , and my wife would not have
made any thing,
But sent her servant
to buy some useless sweets
which the children ,
Would not even touch
and was busy with her Narayaneeyam classes.
AS soon as the
taxi comes to the house , as
per the orders of their parents,
Each child would
hug us, their grand parents
in western style and say an emotion less “hi”,
And then become
busy with their cell phones,
tabs and lap tops,
And after two minutes
the grand patents home would again be a hell of silence
1 comment:
Dear Sir:
You have exactly described the situation in so called "modern households". Reading this article was nice and brought tears to my eyes. I wish people understand our values and imbibe them.
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