Saturday, June 23, 2018

Ten commandments to the married couple of all ages


Ten commandments  to the married  couple   of all ages





By
P.R.Ramachander

 Just now read  a long write up  in Tamil , addressed to the wife   as to how  they should be . I felt that being happy  and being successful  is a joint  responsibility  Hence   these   modified commandments

1.Husband and wife  should plan    for all   activities of the next day together   on the previous day before going to bed
2. Though they can share any work , they  should clearly understand   that  every work of the home  is h joint responsibility.
3.They   should train    all others members of   the family  including elders and children,   to   do their own work , if  there  is a need   and there  is a crisis,
4.Husband and wife should not  criticise  each other  in front of other family members   especially  their children.
5. They should never scold their children by comparing them to their partner
6. In laws  are   our own family  members   and helping them is responsibility  of the couple
7.The house  where   they live is their house  and making it a   heaven is their joint responsibility
8.Always   jointly  keep   some amount of cash    for  use  in crisis   for the family
9.Always wear  dresses  suitable to the occasion and  have  sufficient  number with each of you.
10, Loving each other is  extremely important  and not  troubling each   other    is also  important

                                  .Each of you  are the  living  treasure of the other
                    And you please  try to make your joint  life in to  pretty bouquet. 

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