It is time that all of us do something to get our children married.1.Matching of horoscopes
One of the major problems facing all the communities in India is that , they are not able to find suitable grooms or brides to their children. One of the main reason may be lesser population of girls compared to boys. For example the people of Haryana (who are orthodox in their own way) had gone to Bihar to hunt for brides for their sons . To a large extent they have succeeded. WE due to the rigidity of customs of our families are not even allowed to search for brides among other Brahmins in India. Though such marriages are happening nowadays ,families feel as if some crime has been committed by them. But the parents as well as children (100% of them) on the other hand feel that their marriages are not taking place due to astrologers.
One of my hobbies is matching of horoscopes for matrimony . For the past 16 years I have matched thousands of horoscopes and nearly 1000 marriages have taken place. Many of the parents and grooms maintain their contact with me .Almost about 90% of those marriages have succeeded. And as a Statistician by profession , I know that percentage is indeed very high.
IN spite of that ,if marriages are not taking place due to astrology(matching of horoscopes) , then I want the matching of horoscopes should be stopped, because to me the marriage of our children is much more important than astrology. But I would like to make a request to all these people who want to drop horoscope matching . Once your children are married , do destroy their horoscopes and information of their birth particulars. I am making this humble request because problems do arise in every person’s life and it is a habit in India to approach the astrologer at that time. If they do and if unfortunately the astrologer points out that it is due to defects in horoscope matching, many marriages would break .What is the point in getting them married , if they are going to lead a unhappy life and quarrel with each other.