Thumb rules   for a
good  and purposeful life
Translated  by
P.R.Ramachander
(Based on a post in face book by several people in Tamil
under the heading  71 rules but actually
they were much less  because  they were 
not properly numbered .But the rules make a sense for good  living. )
1.Do not remain without 
learning and relearning ,
What we   have
learnt already  and what we are going to
learn.
2.Do not unnecessarily 
blame others  and make them sad.
3.Under no circumstances forget or drive away  your mother.
4.Do not become friends with bad people whose words  and acts 
are not liked by us.\
5.Do not ever go to places  where there 
is no need togo.
6.Do not 
criticize  others behind their
back
7.After understanding  
that a matter  is lie  , do not tell it to any one else.
8.Do not  try to
stabilize  matters   which are 
not stable.
9.Do not have  any
dealings with poison   and people  like poison.
10.Dpo not be friendly with those  who do not think like us and those   who cannot judge good or bad.
11.Do not go for a long trip   without 
sipport of others.
12.Do not ever trouble those who came with faith in us.
13. Do not ever  
wander without aim or listlessly.
14,Bever trust 
a  staranger  like your relation
15,Work and eat and do not bury  savings down the soil.
16.Teach Dharma  
and never forsake it
17.Do npt invite great sorrows due to short temper
18.Do not ever go 
to meet those  who are  angry with us   for a long time.
19.Do not exaggerate  
the crimes of others
20.Do not  move
with thieves   or murderers.
21.Do not ever go to the home of those   who do not respect us
22.Do not disregard  the advice given by  those who 
are more experienced than us
23,Do not have any friendship with impatient   short tempered people
24,Do not ever not give fee  to the Guru who taught us
25.Do not have friendship with dacoits
26.Do not    do any
 attempt to act without analyzing its
good or   bad
27.Do not  maintain
false accounts and deceive people
28.Do not enter  a
place where some enemies   are fighting
with each  other,
29.Do not stay even a day 
in a public land
30. At the same time do not  live with two wives
31.Do not develop enmity  
with weak and poor people
32.Do not develop friendship with people    who should be avoided.
33.Do not ever 
forget the   good that is done to
you by others
34.Do not create gossip and quarrels  in any 
locality
35.Do not ever neglect close   friends and relatives
36.Do not lose chances to do acts   which would bring   good fame.
37.Do not come under the control of some one else and
live without being able to get free from them.
38.Do not find fault  
with the place   where we live.
39.Do not quarrel unnecessarily due   to hatread of some one else.
40.Do not   make
others sad   without any kindness.
41.Do not tell that you have seen a thing , which  you have not seen.
42.Do not tell words that 
will hurt  others
43.Do not be friends with   those who criticize others  behind their back
44.Do not be friends with people   who flatter 
themselves
45.Do not spend time 
in meaningless  arguments
46.Do not make others quarrel because  of  your
to speak
47.Never forget God or godliness
48,Never tell a lie , even if you may not live.
49.Do not be friends with relations who  unnecessarily find fault
50.You have 
to  give proper compensation along
with sweet words  to   doctors, teachers  , washermen, barbers  and nurses 
51.Do not  split a
family living with unity
52.Do not interfere  
in acts which will bring bad name to others
53.D not ever  move
with people of evil habits
54.Never find fault  
with God
55.Do not hate  
respectable old people   with
great experience

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