Answer by P.R.Ramachander for a post of Her , which is given below this posting:-
Love your Handsome Husbands
*Do not say no to all proposals that husband makes –It hurts him
*Do not share your love with another man-It is also called Adultery
*Never compare Your Husband’s income with another man. If God wanted he would have got you a richer husband
*Be loving and sacrificing .He has given up his duties towards his loving family so that he can satisfy you. He would be hurt when you keep on finding faults with his family.
* Hide nothing from him as you are his soul of soul. If he later knows what you are hiding , he would suffer a lot.
* Don’t make negative comments about his looks and income. He sacrifices all he earns and all he likes , so that you and his children are happy.
* Do not let his income be yardstick of his success .Learn to live with what he is able to earn.
* Never keep on nagging him in private .Problems are for both of you to sit and solve together
*.Thank him for all that he sacrifices to keep you and your children happy .Never underestimate what he does
*All men cannot earn like a software engineer and they cannot take you and family to restaurants every weekends
*Never place your brother or father before him. He has given up everything he has and all his likes to make you happy.
*Make it a point to make him contended and happy .He is the only one who would give up everything to see that you are happy till your end.
* Never use your beauty to control him .Even when your beauty fades away , he would love you and only you.
*.Do not publicize his faults to your friends for the same friends would laugh at you behind your back.
* Look after his parents and honour them. Before he married you , they were his Gods.He would feel miserable , if he cannot look after them because of you.
*Never stop praising him for all that he is . This gives him confidence to fight with life.
SAVE YOUR HOME , YOURSELVES,HIM and ALL THOSE WHO LOVE YOU.PASS IT ON IF YOU LIKE IT
In reply to HER
Love Your 'Own Beautiful Wives'
●Don’t shout at your wife when you are talking. It really hurts her.
●Do not share her love or affection with another woman. It is called Adultery.
●Never compare your wife to another woman. If the other woman was good for you, God would have given her to you.
●Be gentle and accommodating. She has sacrificed so much to be with you. It hurts her deeply when you are hash and irritating. Be tender.
●Hide nothing from her. You are now one and she’s your soulmate. Let there be no secret you are keeping from her.
●Do not make negative comment about her body. She risked her life and beauty to carry your babies. She is a living soul not just flesh and blood.
●Do not let her body determine her worth. Cherish and appreciate her even till old age.
●Never shout at her in the public and in private. If you have an issue to sort with her, do it in the privacy of your room.
●Thank and appreciate her for taking good care of you, the kids and the house. It is a great sacrifice she is making.
●All women cannot cook the same way; appreciate your wife’s food. It is not easy to cook three meals a day, 365 days a year for several years.
●Never place your siblings before her. She is your wife. She is one with you. She must come before your family.
●Make time to play with her and enjoy her company. Remember when you are dead, she’s gonna be by your grave but your friends may be too busy to attend your funeral.
●Never use money to manipulate or control her. All your money belongs to her. She is a joint heir with you of the grace of God.
●Do not expose her weakness. You will be exposing yourself too. Be a shield around her.
●Honour her parents and be kind to her siblings.
●Never cease to tell her how much you love her all the days of her life. Women are never tired of hearing that.
SAVE A HOME TODAY, PASS IT ON