Anger-the curse that makes you lose everything
(These again are not my original thoughts but thoughts of a great person which I read and copied in Tamil , long back. Unfortunately, I did not note down his name .Being short tempered , these lines attracted and influenced me . I remember that great sage Durvasa lost all his greatness and power as soon as he got angry and had to start doing penance again. If you are like me , please read this and try to reduce your anger.)
Those who get angry for anything and everything,
Are the enemies to their own prosperous lives.
If we try to find out why they get angry
WE would understand their as well as our problems.
Some would get angry, if things do not go as they wish,
Some when others do not obey their orders,
Some if they not immediately follow what they say,
Some if others do not agree with them and talk back.
Some if others point out about their faults,
Some if others complain about persons whom they like,
And all these type of anger is not proper and just,
And would indicate they are not mentally mature.
With little patience , if we enquire with patience ,
And hear with patience what they have to say,
Without getting angry we can do many things,
And this would make our life full of peace .
Some will get angry due to physical disabilities,
Some would get angry if their sleep is disturbed,
Some will get angry if they do not get in time,
What they want , whether it is good or bad.
If we happen to talk with persons of this nature,
If we talk with love and with a gentle smile,
We can put out their anger with great speed,
As talk with love and concern has that power.
All acts done when one is angry would be unwise acts,
And so when we talk with an angry person , we need to take care,
If one gets angry , there isa possibility that we may become sick,
And we may loose our friends and relatives and forced to live alone.
They would be creating large number of enemies around them,
They would be called as snobs as well as short tempered idiots,
And so after you come out of anger please think about ,
Why you got angry and identify your role and part in it.
This would help you to control it next time when it occurs,
And there is also a need to learn and train yourself to control anger
AS soon as you get out of anger please request for pardon ,
And make a decision every morning not to get angry that day.
Anger would reduce all the prosperity and name of yours,
So,”Leran to laugh and if not learn to keep your mouth shut “
There is no evidence that anger wins but several that patience wins,
You please be like Sun , t you would shed light and live in peace .