Father Advises daughter after marriage
(The entire idea was written by one of my face book friends Sri Halasya Sundaram Iyer My grateful acknowledgements to him )
Darling daughter , I do need to advice you ,
Though it is normal only for a mother.
To advice her daughter while she leaves her,
I thought that I too need to advice you.
I know that you have great admiration r to your father,
About his personality, decision making power and so on,
But dear daughter never tell about it to your husband,
For no male like another male to be praised by his wife.
Do not expect your adamant behavior to be pardoned,
By your husband , till he understands your childishness,
As your father’s affection to you was blind and prevented,
Him to be angry with you at any time, as you are his child.
Little arguments and differences are bound to arise between you both,
But at that time never even by error say,”I am going to my father’s home,”
And whenever your opinion is asked by your loving gusband,
Never ever say, “ I will consult my father before telling you a decision.”
Remember from now onwards you both only have to take decisions,
Make your darling understand that from now on he is your world,
And make him sit on the throne of your mind as your king,
AS this is the only way that your life would be filled with joy.
Remember that a man’s anger is really expression of his love ,
And never show your anger against him and please know,
That the mental adjustment of your mother who is my darling,
Only changed my short tempered nature and mage me in to a human being.
To summarise my little one , Never sing the praises of your father,
Never ever compare him who is your king to your father ,
You are the sweet little bundle of your father ,.
And this will never help you for from now on your husband is your hero.
Please prove the good habits and culture ,
That I taught you this long, as your great asset,
By joining with your husband , loving him ,
And by establishing a sweet and well meaning married life.