Be a good husband
(Based on tamil write up of Balasubramanian Nannilam Ranganathan. I did make a few changes )
Not only in your bed room but also,
In Kitchen give her company ,
Become her mother when she is weak and in pain
Become her child to her on all other days ,
To wash her cloths is not at all a shame,
But it is the gift that you give her.
AS much as possible try to reduce ,
Going home very late after work,
If you feel that she looks tired,
Do not shout at her if salt is not proper in a dish,
See to it that you also eat the dish with relish.
Have small quarrels with her everyday,
But see to it that it turns big due to anger,
Share half of her work and be nice to her,
On Holidays allow her to sleep till noon,
And wake her up with hot steaming cup of tea.
If you are late tell her the reason for it ,
If it is your mistake ask her pardon,
At the time of going to work and return from work ,
Present her with a pleasant mischievous smile,
And yell her she is pretty and you love her.
Whenever you go for special occasions ,
See to it that she accompanies you ,
If she is in pain, become her mother,
Let the tears that she anytime sheds ,
Because of you be only the tears of joy.
If you get very angry , just stifle it,
If she is sick, you become her nurse ,
Fulfill her desires and avoid all pain for her,
If she does a mistake hug her tightly,
And become like her father , when she was a little baby.
Allow her to keep her old friendships ,
And if you know what is n her mind ,
Respect them like her brother ,
Daily sleep along with her,
And in death bed hold her hand.